Being single can be frustrating. You don’t have a partner to enjoy life’s activities with and fulfill your emotional and sexual needs. Not everyone has the luxury of a regular and steady romantic and sexual partner. You might be uncomfortable with sexual intercourse and the idea of engaging sexually with someone you’re not in a relationship with.
Whether you are saving yourself for a committed relationship or just going through a sexual drought, you can find contentment in satisfying yourself. If you are comfortable performing solo acts in the bedroom there are ways to keep regular masturbation fresh and exciting, even when you’re the only audience member who needs pleasing. Your pleasure whether alone or with another person is paramount.
Below are some innovative and quick ways you can spice up your solo sex life:
1. Sex Toys
These are always an ideal investment because sex toys are great to play with a partner or going solo. It’s true that some items are designed specifically with couples use still in mind, but the majority of what you can find in the sex toy arena is perfect for those going solo.
The standard and quality of materials used in recent years makes so many of the more stereotypical sex toy items seem silly by comparison. Toy manufacturers have been focused on a singular goal in recent decades, which is to close the gap between solo toy-assisted sex and the real thing as much as possible.
The result is the ability for anyone now to achieve maximum sexual pleasure even during those times they either can’t find or don’t want to find a partner.
2. Introduce Audio-Visual Elements
Another idea for boosting your solo play is to say hello to the audio-visual. During your usual solo play, you might usually be satisfied just focusing on certain individuals you find attractive and creating mental images in your mind. The truth is that things can get so much wilder when you add in some pre-made video or image material from online.
With so many videos and other materials such as voice-only erotic audio are available freely online across multiple platforms, one shouldn’t feel so guilty about augmenting their solo play with some inspiration from others of their type who can provide some erotic background to the fun. Your imagination can take right into the thick of it all, too!
3. Set it to Fan Fiction
Erotic fan fiction is a somewhat more niche section of the world of erotica, but still with a strong following and a lot of different source material available online. If you don’t like the idea of augmenting your mental stimulus with videos or erotic audio material, then how about something written?
Explore the world of erotic fan fiction to see characters, actors, celebrities and other crushes you may have had in a whole new light. It can be an illuminating and exciting experience for solo play to lose yourself in one of these stories.
4. Treat Yourself to a Date
Why do you save all the good food, wine, and romance for when you have company? Why not treat yourself to a new kind of “date night”? You could draw yourself a fantastic relaxing bath, cook a delicious dinner for yourself with sumptuous and expensive ingredients, and maybe a bottle of wine or champagne?
As you loosen up with some romantic music, take yourself into the boudoir and enjoy your own company, perhaps with your new sex toys or online erotica. The night is all yours!
5. Draw Out the Experience
Finally, one of the best ways to really get to enjoy some solo time is to make it last longer. Don’t rush the experience. Take your time, get the mood just right, use lubricants and massage oils, and really create an experience. This is your time for pleasure, so what’s the hurry?
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