Singles are great at lying to themselves. Maybe its just hiding our feelings but once we begin to feel interest in someone it becomes our first priority to act like we couldn’t care less. The logic is simple; you don’t want to get hurt. It’s better to say the grapes are sour than to want...
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How To Date By Your Own Rules
In dating, most people feel bound by rules. Instead of doing what they really want, or pursuing their own agenda, they do what they feel they should. They compromise their behaviors to be liked, instead of being honest. These kinds of singles are typically deemed “nice” and are rarely successful. In life we make choices. In...
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How Your Choices are Sabotaging Your Dating Success
Dr. Phil has a quote, “When we choose the behavior, we choose the results. In order to have differently, we have to do differently.” Often singles set out to prove that their way of dating is right and that everyone else is f*cked up. For example, when I posted a video about ‘nice guys’, I...
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How To Uncomplicate Your Dating Life
I think it was in a Deepak Chopra book where I read the statement, ‘have no point to prove’. I’ve been living that mantra ever since. Whether it’s in conversation, in the way that I dress, or how I choose my behavior I repeat to myself, ‘have no point to prove’. I don’t get defensive....