Is it possible to date as a shy guy?
Let me tell you that I am also a shy guy. And I know it is very difficult for people like me who are shy to approach a girl. Dating word was intimidating for me. But my friends gave me some very useful tips about dating which really helped me a lot. You can say that it changed my life. So I am going to share those tips with you guys so that you don’t find it tough.
Place
Choosing a place to meet with your girl is one of the most important things.
That is why I would suggest you to play safe. You should choose a relaxed and peaceful place whenever you are planning to meet. If you choose bar or nightclub, then you are making a mistake because those places are crowded so that will make you uncomfortable. A shy person like you will not be able to talk. And that is not good for your dating experience. A peaceful and relaxed place would make you comfortable a lot. That way you can spend a quality time with her.
Don’t Be In Hurry
I am going to give you another useful tip and that tip is haste makes waste.
It means when you see a girl you would want to date, don’t be in hurry to ask her out. It is not going to work. First of all, go and have a natural conversation with her. It can be a small conversation, if you like. You should try to know her and give her a chance to know you as well. After that if you want, you can ask her out. Let me tell you that it might take time but it is important.
Be A Good Listener
Being a good listener is an important thing in a relationship.
Let me tell you one thing that a woman likes to talk about herself. So if you are having a conversation with her, try to pay attention to what she is saying. And I don’t need to tell you that we are a good listener. So our that attribute will help us. If you don’t know what to say, just repeat what she says as question. Listen to her carefully. She will love it when you do this. It will show her that you are really interested in her.
Be Yourself
You don’t have to pretend like someone else.
No one can play your part better than you. So my advice is be yourself always. A girl might come to know that you are just faking it. And your dating will be over. And I want to tell you one thing if you be yourself, your real girl will like you and will never leave you because she likes the real you. So don’t try to impress her with someone else’s shitty jokes.
Try Internet Dating
Online dating is quite useful for people who are shy because before meeting with her, you can have a conversation with her and that will make you comfortable. When you will start having a daily conversation with her, you will be not feel uncomfortable while meeting her.
Be Smart
That is a one more important tips I would like to share with you guys.
Girls like smart guys so keep this in mind. Be well dressed and make sure that you are looking smart. That thing will surely attract her. You don’t have to wear costly dress to impress her. You can wear whatever you think suits you. You can take advice from your friends.
Share Messages And Quotes
If you think sharing quotes and messages is a rubbish thing, think again.
They are very useful especially for shy people because they can express your emotions to her in a very simple way. Sometimes you can’t find words to express what she is for you. She holds so much importance in your life. And sometimes you find it difficult to say that. That is why taking help of deep love messages for her and quotes are important. You can find the best quotes on internet.
Remember Girls Are Like You
If you think you are the only one who is nervous and scared, you are wrong. Let me tell you a fact that women are also as nervous as you. Women also over think about small things such as their hair, their dress etc so this is a big advantage for you my friend. Be confident.
So these are the tips which my friends gave me in the past. And now I am sharing with you my friends. These tips will be very helpful to you guys because as I have told you I know how hard it is for people like us to even approach a girl. Apply these tips and best of luck.