We are told to let our light shine, and if it does, we won’t need to tell anybody it does. Lighthouses don’t fire cannons to call attention to their shining- they just shine.- Dwight L. Moody Several men suffer from approach anxiety. It’s basically the fear a man feels before hitting on an attractive woman. Typically advice is given to men who have trouble getting over the fear of rejection. We all want to feel accepted, liked and “good enough” for the person we’re attempting to impress. Facing rejection sucks balls and it’s a legitimate fear if you lack the...
Do You Need A Dating Do Over? How To Regroup Your Love Life
The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude to me is more important than facts…. We cannot change our past…we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10 percent what happens to me and 90 percent how I react to it. And so it is with you… we are in charge of our attitudes. ~ Charles R. Swindoll Is...
Why Thinking That You Can Do Better Is Keeping You Single
“Some people are settling down, some people are settling and some people refuse to settle for anything less than butterflies.” – Sex in the City I love being single but I don’t want to be single. Anyone who has thought this knows the truth but just hasn’t been able to say it out loud. If I’m the first to say this or if I get heat for being honest, that’s okay. I don’t want to be single but I’d rather be single than be with a loser. I want to be with someone who is exactly what I’ve said I...
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You Have The Right To Remain Picky Because You’re Perfect
We sometimes encounter people, even perfect strangers, who begin to interest us at first sight, somehow suddenly, all at once, before a word has been spoken. ~ Fydor Dostoevsky Call it picky but I completely understand. You don’t want to be with the wrong person just because you want a relationship. Plus, there are so many people in relationships who are unhappy that taking the extra time to pick a partner seems wise, I feel ya. It’s just too bad most single people can’t articulate these sentiments and while one of your date’s eyes might have been larger than the...