Dating remains one of the most complex inventions in human history. While the concept is widely known among adults, few have been formally taught its mechanics. Despite the repeated regurgitation of advice, modern society often gravitates towards the latest trends, without fail. The latest trend scapegoats women for their single status through the concept of ‘de-centering’ men. This notion suggests that women should prioritize every aspect of their lives except dating, even if they desire a partner. This is where a fundamental misunderstanding occurs. It’s not women who centered men; society did. The Narrative of “Women Need To” Traditional dating...
The Right Way to Date in a Post Pandemic Era
It’s embarrassing to think that anyone would deny themselves a healthy loving relationship but if you are dating casually, that’s exactly what you’re doing. There isn’t a dating expert who hasn’t at some point echoed the cliché dating is a numbers game. How are you going to meet the right person unless you are willing to date enough of the wrong people? In theory, this makes sense but unfortunately, what happens within our minds and bodies when we are constantly met with disappointment is not a mathematical equation. You can’t separate your feelings from your experiences because the memory of...
How to Find The Right Romantic Partner
The practice of traditional dating sustained a devastating blow during the pandemic. What most singles realized is that being alone was expensive, lonely, and at times overwhelming. Trying to balance work and pleasure, while simultaneously making time for self-care became an almost unmanageable task for most singles. What many predicted would be an influx in divorces as the world came out of lockdown quickly pivoted to a mild sense of optimism once research was conducted. When COVID-19 hit America in March, early signs suggested that the pandemic might expedite divorces because of lockdown-related stress. However, survey data found that the...
The Right Way to Ask a Woman On a Date
“Right now, you are knowing who you are at depth or you are avoiding it. You are relaxing and embodying your soul’s purpose on earth or you are resisting your calling.” – David Deida Men have never been held to a high standard for self-awareness. The messages that most men receive about how to be a man endorse ignoring yourself i.e your emotions and promote acting ‘as if’ until you feel powerful. ‘Fake it ‘til you make it’ is advice designed for men drenched in toxic masculinity. Despite the various resources for advice, dating seems even more complicated today than...