I make resolutions every year. While some people think change should occur all year-long or it’s useless to make a promise to yourself, most people can’t keep, I look at resolutions as my longest term goals for self-improvement. I tend to use my resolutions for the New Year to aid in my personal growth. Throughout the year I set goals for my career, my finances, things I want to buy or accumulate in life but New Years is the time I set goals for who I want to be as a person. Ask yourself now, what kind of partner do you...
How To Change A Bad Dating Habit For The Better
As we get closer to January 1st I can’t help but think what I truly want out of love. As a woman who enjoys being single I know better than most that just because you enjoy independence doesn’t mean you don’t want true love or a partner. But I want to be honest with you. You have to want one very important thing and that’s happiness. In the past I may not have stressed this point but if I have to write a thousand posts on the subject, I will. Because I know, deep down in my heart that happy...
How I Create a Love Plan
When people tell me dating is easy for me, referring to my looks, I always laugh and say it’s even harder because I’ve dated everybody. I feel like I have dated everyone. From athletes, lawyers, doctors, salesmen, unemployed, engineers, Americans, Russians, Africans and the list goes on. I’ve never found it difficult to get a date but what I’ve found over the years that I’ve been writing about dating, is that most people don’t care about the date. For most people, the destination is far more important than the journey and they would rather get to paradise and have a lousy time...
Why You Need To Date Outside The Box
What do you need to be happy? Not just in dating but in life period? Think about it, I’ll wait. I’ve noticed one trend when it comes to singles taking control of their love lives, usually the rest of their lives are a mess. Typically when we’re unhappy in other areas of our lives, we focus on love because it seems like more manageable and rewarding. It’s estimated it takes 40,000 a year to make the average person happy but it’s all just speculation, estimation and statistics. What does that really mean to you or me? In the years I’ve...