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How To Understand Someone’s Agenda

How To Understand Someone’s Agenda

It’s not as simple as all men want sex and all women want a husband. If it were then agendas would no longer need to exist. We could get what we wanted by simply pursuing those who accepted our interests. But this isn’t the case. Singles have agendas. Some of us want something serious while...

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How To Avoid Sweating The Small Stuff in Dating

How To Avoid Sweating The Small Stuff in Dating

To quote the now infamous book and its classic yet simple concept, ‘don’t sweat the small stuff’. And by definition it’s all small stuff. In dating we like to take things, other people’s behaviors, personally. Our ego is fighting to be heard. We let trivial situations enrage us, upset us, bring us to tears and...

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How To Move On From A Break-Up And Begin Dating Again

How To Move On From A Break-Up And Begin Dating Again

  Breaking up is hard to do. Or so people say. It’s a no brainer that most of us don’t deal with change very well and what’s even harder in a relationship, that we don’t deal well with, is loss of control. When you’re relationship is falling apart or not going the way that you...

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How To Create Successful Encounters

How To Create Successful Encounters

After years of giving dating advice I constantly meet people who haven’t learned the importance of adding value. Whether they feel their presence is a gift in itself, most of the time when people fail in dating it’s because they are not adding enough value to their partners’ life. This couldn’t be more obvious than...