Just because you live a long way away from your romantic partner and can’t engage in physical lovemaking doesn’t mean you have to be sexually distant from them.
In the United States alone, there are over seven million couples who consider themselves to be in a long-distance relationship according to the experts at DatingLongDistance.com. In other words, you and your partner are not the only couple in this predicament.
As much as you’d love to share the same bed each night, you just need to get a bit more creative when that’s not possible. If millions of other couples can do it, so can you!
Here are the top sex tips for people in long-distance relationships.
Have Special Email Accounts
By ‘special email accounts,’ I mean email accounts that you only use to send messages between you and your partner and nothing else. Your partner’s replies should literally be the only messages that show up in your inbox.
Send sexy messages or photos via email as a form of foreplay and to build tension before you meet again.
This creates an exciting way to communicate with your boyfriend or girlfriend, and without worrying about anybody else accidentally seeing it.
Make this even more fun by selecting a sexy alias for your email name!
Write Erotica Stories About The Two of You
Write steamy erotica stories about the two of you and then send them to your partner.
Not only can these stories be fun to write and provide masturbation material for when you’re alone, but it also provides inspiration for what to do when you finally meet up.
The only limit is your imagination!
You can make the stories as adventurous or explicit as you want. Write out detailed fantasies you want to one day experience with your partner.
Make it a game where you each write out a chapter and send them to one another over your special email inbox. When compiled together, the chapters create your own private sex book that’s for your eyes only.
Get Naked On Your Video Calls
It may not be quite the same thing as making eye contact while locked in passionate intercourse, but stripping totally naked over a live video chat in front of your partner could be the next best thing.
To make things even more exciting, you can show each other closeups of different parts of your bodies, pleasure yourselves in front of one another, or challenge each other to do things around the house in the nude.
Otherwise mundane activities such as washing the dishes, vacuuming the floors, or changing the laundry become something else entirely when you do them naked with your partner watching and laughing along the way.
If you’re shy about getting naked on camera, remember it’s just the two of you. This can create a profoundly erotic experience for you and your partner that you can remember forever.
Engage In Meaningful Conversations That Make You Vulnerable
Sex-themed conversations are certainly arousing, but you shouldn’t only focus on sex. There are other meaningful things in life you need to talk about with your partner as well to build a close connection with them.
What about your aspirations or dreams in life that you’re too afraid to share with others? Or your biggest fears and insecurities about yourself?
These are subjects that expose you for who you truly are to your partner. The more vulnerable you are with someone, the more it amplifies the pleasure of your sex life.
An intimate emotional connection is ultimately the most powerful component in a likewise intimate physical relationship.
Send Sexy Surprise Gifts Each Other
There are a variety of sexy gifts you can send to your partner from long away:
- Naughty pictures of yourself
- An equally naughty voice recording
- Perfumes
- Your underwear
- LDR Sex toys that you can link up through WiFi
- Those private erotica stories I mentioned earlier
The possibilities indeed are endless. Regardless of what you send, make sure it’s a surprise. It helps to heat things up before you meet in-person and shows you really want to see them again, which leads us into…
Plan to Meet Up Eventually
You can’t stay apart forever! The above tips are great to keep your sex life alive while you’re forced to spend time apart, but sooner or later (hopefully sooner), you must reconnect in-person so you can enjoy physical contact.
After all, the only way a long-distance relationship can work in the first place is if the two of you decide early on the end result.