There are distinct differences between a woman that a man falls in love with, and a woman that he keeps around until THE ONE comes along. If you want to be the one that he commits to for life, there are specific tips that you need to know. A High Quality, High Value man may be attracted to many women, but he will only fall head over heels in love with ONE.
The one that he will fall for is the luscious feminine wonder woman that has what other women do not. Let’s dive in to what makes a high quality man commit.
1. HE WANTS A WONDER WOMAN
A high quality man wants to commit to a wonder woman. A wonder woman is a High Quality, High Value woman. The thing is, he can be physically attracted to any woman, but physical attraction is cheap attraction. Cheap attraction is easy to get if you are a woman.
A wonder woman, on the other hand, is a woman who is LOVED, cherished, and made to feel like a princess. She is the woman that a high quality man will want to completely own – her mind, body and spirit. She is the feminine goddess that he will commit everything to, the one that he does not want to live without.
And trust me, being loved like a wonder woman is a billion times more exhilarating and rewarding than getting cheap attention from a man.
A High Quality man wants DEPTH from a woman.
He wants specific qualities that differentiate her from ALL OTHER WOMEN. She has to be special in order for him to place her in the long term relationships category. This is why you should always be conscious of the impression that you are giving off to men – this includes how you dress, what you say, and how you behave.
2. HE NEEDS TO FEEL INSPIRED
A high quality man knows how to enjoy his life and get what he wants without a woman by his side.
This is why he needs to be INSPIRED by a woman in order for him to commit. He wants to feel that you add so much to his life that he can not imagine it without you. A high quality man wants a woman who also has ambitions, goals, and a life that she loves. Only then will he be willing to give up his masculine freedom – because he will feel that you are worth it.
He wants your energy, your vibe, your sensuality, your playfulness, your emotions. Men need to feel GOOD when they are around you which makes them want to be around you more.
3. HE WANTS AN EMOTIONALLY BALANCED WOMAN
High quality men are attracted to women who are emotionally mature and balanced (just like high quality women are attracted to the same in men ;)) It is important that he feels positive emotions around you as much as possible.
Learn to deal with negative emotions on your own time and save your best self for him. This way, you can show up as an emotionally balanced, loving, attractive woman that he wants to commit to.
Men do not want to feel stressed, controlled, and blamed in relationships. If he gets a glimpse of your insecure, anxious vibes, he may feel that you are not commitment material. The more you can be non-controlling and easy going, the less likely he will have doubts about committing to you.
He needs to feel positive emotions around you as much as possible.
4. HE WANTS A WOMAN WITH INTEGRITY
A high quality man wants a real woman who accepts and loves herself.
This means that she does not pretend that everything is fine when it really isn’t.
She can share with him when she is feeling sad, happy, or frustrated because she is okay with being herself. She does not fake her emotions or try to put on a “happy” face. This is what makes her real. She tells her man exactly what she wants from him, rather than hoping that he guesses.
A man will see strength and integrity in her. This is because she does not tolerate poor treatment from men or anyone who criticizes her or puts her down. She stands up for herself because she values and respects herself. That is what makes her naturally show up as a high quality woman and what makes a man attracted to her.
Remember, lovely, the way you treat yourself is the way that men will treat you. Learn to love, adore, and enjoy yourself.
5. A HIGH QUALITY MAN LOOKS FOR SPECIFIC TRAITS
A low quality man will settle for almost any type of woman. He will see a physically attractive woman and that will be all he needs. He is not very hard to impress.
A high quality man, on the other hand, is the man that you really want and deserve. He is the man with high standards who is not easily wooed by any woman in a short skirt. Sure, he may admire her physical beauty, but his attention on her will not last very long if she does not have the qualities of a feminine goddess. (Read the post on how to be a feminine goddess here).
There are specific qualities that will make a high quality man want to commit. Here are some of them:
- Caring/unselfish
- Vulnerable
- Easy going
- Unpredictable
- Has boundaries
- Passionate
- Authentic
- Flexible
- Adventurous
- Understands men
- Lives in Love
6. HE WANTS A WOMAN HE CAN LEAD
A high quality man wants a woman who allows him to take her places. He is too mature to settle for games, manipulation, and power trips. He wants to make decisions (most of the time) and lead her because it will help him feel like a courageous, strong man. Chances are that as a woman, you will also be happiest with a man who is a leader rather than a follower.
If a woman has too much masculine energy it can cause an imbalance in power because she wants to control, to lead, and to be right. This is unattractive to high quality men and they will not commit to this type of woman.
Learn to give up some control with men and you will inspire them to be more masculine for you in return. Plus, they will be more attracted to you when you relax and allow them to lead.
7. AN ENERGETICALLY BALANCED WOMAN IS THE MOST ATTRACTIVE WOMAN
Ultimately, a man wants a woman who is energetically balanced.
This means that she is mostly feminine energy but she has some masculine energy to balance it out.The feminine side of her is open, fun, vulnerable, emotional, and caring. The masculine side of her is proactive, independent, leading, and controlling.
When a woman has too much feminine energy, she is erratic, overly emotional, approval-seeking, and has difficulty finding her own purpose in life. Add a dash of masculine energy and she is now proactive and knows how to get what she wants. At the same time, she remains feminine and radiant.
8. A MAN LOVES A WOMAN WHO LOVES HERSELF
Once you learn to fully accept yourself, you will easily and naturally attract amazing supermen into your life. They will gravitate towards you without you even having to do anything.
Why is this so powerful? Because when you are being yourself, you are not worrying about what others think.
That is when the most confident, relaxed and attractive side of you will shine. Being authentic and comfortable in your own skin is super attractive to men. They see that you are not seeking their approval and you are not willing to compromise yourself and your behaviour in order to please a man. This is the type of confidence that will magnetically draw men to you.
9. A MAN WANTS A WOMAN WHO IS NON-JUDGMENTAL
Being open and authentic around a man will inspire him to be the same with you. He will be more likely to share things with you.
The important thing is that you respond in the right way – this is what can make or break communication with a man.
Whenever he opens up to you and shares something meaningful or difficult for him to share, you must accept him fully. Do not judge him, belittle him, laugh at him, or make him feel wrong. A feminine goddess understands how difficult it can be for men to open up. She accepts him without judgment and this is why he is amazed by her.
10. HERE IS WHAT MAKES HIM PLACE YOU IN THE DO NOT COMMIT CATEGORY
Playing games so that he “chases” after you or using manipulation of any kind
Being controlling or competitive
Being closed off emotionally
Dressing overtly sexy to make him desire you (OK for sex, bad for love)
Giving him ultimatums
Being negative around him
Being “entitled” to receive (gifts, attention, resources) from him
Does not understand men
And a bonus tip.
MEN DON’T WANT JUST ANY WOMAN, THEY WANT A RARE GEM
He has to see you as unique and worth committing to which has to do with how VALUABLE he perceives you to be. We place more value on things that are scarce because they are rare and not easily attainable.
The same thing works when it comes to the dating pool. You must show up as a high quality woman who is not “easy” to get. This means that you are a challenge to him (and not because you play games). It is because you have integrity and high standards for yourself and others.
You are not easily dazzled by any lame guy who gives you a bit of attention.
You are not a woman that just any man can win over.
Your man will see that you are a high quality woman when you are SELECTIVE with who you show attention to. This means that you show your man “special” treatment. You can be warm, receptive, and flirtatious with him, but NOT with other men.
Remember, lovely, a high quality man will not commit to just anyone, he wants to commit to a Wonder Woman, a feminine goddess who is special and unique.
That is why you have a choice to make.
Which of these women would you rather be? The “every woman” or the “one and only feminine goddess”? If you want to be the one that he cherishes and cannot live without, then you need to show him that you are a unique feminine goddess that has the qualities that most other women do not.
This is what will set you apart and make a man chase you and fall head over heels in love with you.
Happy loving!