This post was originally published by Amy North. Watch the video below for these tips in action.
When it comes to love, you probably have the same set of ideas in mind.
Flowers, candle lit dinners, holding hands and planning your happily ever after with the man of your dreams. Well that’s all cute and charming, before you can share those experiences with a guy, you need to make him fall in love with you… which is exactly what I’m going to teach you today.
Hey ladies, Amy North here.
For those of you who don’t know me I’m a relationship coach from the west coast of Canada and author of The Devotion System, a program I’ve designed to help women around the world find and lock down the love they want and deserve. If this is your first time visiting my channel, thanks for coming by, or if you’re a regular viewer, welcome back! Either way though, sit tight because you’re in for a real treat today! What’s that you ask?
Well, today I’m going to share with you the text messages you can send a man to make him fall in love with you. Now before you get all worked up or start panicking that this is a HUGE, seemingly impossible challenge, don’t. Stay calm, and believe me, this isn’t as hard as it seems.
Better yet, in this video I’m going to give you text messages that you can use yourself. That means that all you have to do is listen to what I tell you here, and plug in these messages into your phone. That said, there are of course going to be situations or circumstances where these messages will be adapting — I mean, you’re not going to text a man about a trip to Cuba if you’ve never left the country — but again, don’t worry. I’ll give you the templates then all you’ll have to do is personalize these messages.
Before I get ahead of myself though, I do have to mention that there are some super important “rules” to keep in mind.
Now, I say rules because you should never do otherwise, but really they’re just tips. Let’s use R.U.L.E.S as an acronym to help you remember these pointers though.
R – Re read your Message
Re-read your message Before you hit send on your phone it’s important that you read the text message you’ve typed up. Check it for clarity, spelling and tone. Read it at least five times; you’d be surprised how easy it is to overlook the simplest mistakes. Besides, if you send him a powerful message that then has to be followed up with a spelling correction or explanation, the original message you’ve sent is going to lose it’s bite. So don’t sell yourself short, read your messages before sending.
U – Use Visual Language
Use visual language Now, when it comes to text messaging men and women are quite different from one another in terms of the types of messages they best respond to. See, while us ladies like getting messages that are descriptive and evoke her feelings, men on the other hand, are visual creatures that respond best to descriptive messages that will let him easily imagine and feel the messages you’re sending. This means that you’ll want to use visual language. Let me give you an example. Instead of texting him, “I really want to kiss you right now,” you’d want to say something like “I ….” See the difference between the two? Take the time to add those details, they make all the difference.
L – Leave Him Wanting More
Leave him wanting more This one is pretty self explanatory so simply put, it just means don’t over do it. If you blow up your man’s phone with pointless messages, then he isn’t going to look forward to hearing from you. However, if you only send him well thought out, cleverly crafted messages, well those are the ones that are going to keep him hanging off your every word…. Or text rather. 😉
E – Excite Him
Excite him (avoid boring messages) I don’t know about you ladies, but there are few things that bother me more than the one or even two-word text message. You know the ones I’m talking about. “Hi” or “What’s up?” They make my skin crawl! Maybe it’s because they come across as lazy or give the impression that the sender is bored and only texting for their own entertainment, or maybe it’s because they don’t make me feel, well, anything really… asides from irritated. Anyways, enough about my feelings, the point I’m making is that every message you send your man should be exciting.
Now, I know this can be tough, especially if you have the kind of relationship where you communicate daily through texts, and share those little mundane thoughts and updates, but seriously, believe me when I say it’s time to stop. From here on out you want to make sure that every text message you send is captivating and exciting! I’ll touch more on this later. Now last but certainly not least,
“S”… S – Stay positive
Watch the video below for these tips in action.