A Single’s Guide To Sex Toys

Whether you’re sociable or enjoy solitude, people can’t deny the desire to make the most of their ‘me time.’ And considering the many stresses life brings, you might find yourself with far too little time for yourself. If that’s the case, it only makes sense for you to make the most of it.

Many find it easier to de-stress when surrounded by loved ones, especially if you have your significant other all to yourself. However, for those who are currently single or aren’t interested in being in a relationship, you can still enjoy your own company by giving yourself some love. And you might find that once you give sex toys a shot.

Having sexual urges is anything but scandalous. After all, many people find this instinct natural. But because this topic is typically considered taboo, there isn’t a lot of information about selecting sex toys. Also, these products are not approved by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA). Therefore, with the many sex toy products available online, you run the risk of getting hurt rather than taking pleasure in your ‘me time.’

What’s Your Type?

Since there are many sex toys out there, the sheer number and variety might overwhelm you. So, to keep things simple, it’s probably better to categorize them based on how they’re used—externally or internally.

External Toys

If you’re the type who just likes to tease yourself or are not in the mood for penetrative sex, external toys might be what you’re looking for. Pleasuring yourself using this will be a breeze. If you’re coming from a bad breakup, you might forget your ex even existed.

Bullet vibrators, cock rings, masturbation sleeves, and clit suckers—all of these and more are being sold on the market. You can either get off using them or edge yourself using their customizable settings, particularly with vibrators and clit suckers. But as for toys simulating a penis, all you need to do is be mindful of the size you’re getting to ensure a pleasurable yet comfortable experience the entire time.

Internal Toys

Internal toys are highly recommended if you get off penetrative sex, especially if you combine them with external toys. With ladies having their ‘G-spot’ and guys with their prostate, internal toys are designed to stimulate these sweet spots until you’re left squirming for release.

  • Vibrators

The G-spot wand is a penetrative vibrator that’s a notch above the usual vibrators. It resembles your typical cylindrical dildo, except it sends out vibrations directly to your G-spot. Guys can also use this toy on their backside.

  • Butt Plugs

Anal toys like butt plugs target the prostate. Butt plugs are simply that—plugs. Thanks to their flared base, butt plugs will stay in your backside without any issue. However, with vibrating and non-vibrating models available, an anal plug’s simple design might turn out into something much more special for you.

  • Anal Beads

Meanwhile, anal beads resemble a string of beads with an end grip. Each bead is intended to be inserted into the anus, one by one, to stimulate your sensitive opening. After you’ve edged yourself with the rest of your toys, pulling these beads out of you might be just what you need to reach an orgasm. But then again, not everyone is a fan of anal stimulation. So, you must be mindful when selecting your toys.

Never Go Big

Nowadays, different porn sites have become much more accessible with the help of the internet. Because of their influence, these porn sites instilled the idea that ‘bigger is better,’ which may be harmful no matter how much you’ve prepped yourself.

So, instead of gunning for a 12-inch toy, it’s better to ease into it by starting small. That way, you’ll discover your likes and dislikes and go from there.

Browse Through Reviews

Since you’re buying a product, looking up product reviews is a wise move. After all, knowing other customers’ first-hand experience with a product you’re interested in is an excellent basis for your purchasing decision.

Furthermore, learning from more experienced people than you in this area is extremely helpful if you’re looking for trustworthy brands.

Be Thorough

Since they aren’t approved by the FDA, the adult toys you find on the market have no guarantee of safety.

So, to ensure a stress-free experience in the bedroom, you may reach out to the manufacturer’s customer service representatives to get crucial information. This way, you’ll learn more about its material, cleaning instructions, and other precautions.

Takeaway

Just because you’re alone doesn’t mean you can’t have any fun on your own. So, instead of dwelling on the various stresses of life, it’s better to make the most of your alone time. And one way to do that is by giving adult toys a try.

Since such items are not FDA-regulated, it might be challenging to find the right one. The pointers given above should help with your search.

Isaura J. Hylton
Isaura J. Hylton has been a sex therapist for more than 10 years. She gives practical advice to people struggling to maintain a healthy sex life. She spends her free time diving into intimate discussions on her Youtube channel.

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Devin Smith is a staff editor with The Dating Truth.