While we all know that we can’t possibly keep it fresh, exciting, and passionate at all times, it is important that couples do not fall into a comfortable lull, where we allow the desire for one another to fade over time. At the beginning of the relationship, the sparks that ignite your relationship will come naturally and in bursts, so much so, that you may not be able to keep your hands off one another. But as time goes on, you may crave personal space, choose to take on individual hobbies, or get so engrossed in life, that you forget...
Learning When to Bail: Forgiveness vs. Stupidity
I am a firm believer in giving people chances. I know that we are all human and we all make mistakes whether we want to admit to them or not. I know that I have made many mistakes in the past, especially in terms of how I behaved in a relationship, whether it was a friendship or one based on romance. I’ve done dirt, and I’ve also been emotionally defecated on. I’ve also discovered that learning when to bail out of a bad situation is integral for survival. First time shame on you; second time shame on me. I came...
How to Be in a Relationship When You Have a Busy Schedule
Relationships take a lot of time and commitment, and sometimes, you just can’t find the time in your busy schedule. This is especially true if you work a really demanding job, and it calls for your attention all of the time. As a result of your busy schedule, you might start to feel like your relationship is suffering. It can be doubly frustrating if your partner is making time for you, but you just can’t meet up. Several relationships have ended due to conflicting schedules, but fortunately, yours doesn’t have to. There are simple time management tricks you can use...
The Challenges of Dating When You’re an Introvert
What do you do when you yearn for connection with others yet need to return to a sense of calm and privacy. Situations that require individuals to interact with and meet new people are always challenging, especially for introverts. While introverts don’t necessarily exhibit debilitating anxiety or shyness, it’s an effort for them to proactively seek out circumstances that involve socializing. Introverts are often characterized by traits that not only make it difficult to venture very far beyond their comfort zone, but also make it hard for others to crack their inner circle. Being around large groups of people isn’t...