I often hear men’s struggles with asking women out on dates. In reality there is nothing women want more than for men to take the lead and ask them out. What I’ve noticed is a cultural shift in the way the asking in done. In the past, there was a five second rule stating if a man sees a woman he’s interested in, he has 5 seconds to make a move before fear and insecurity take hold. Living by that theory it became normal to say hello, then ask for a date. The pickup artist world taught men for the...
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Why Are We Afraid To Invest In Others Before We Date Them?
The countdown clock begins from the moment we meet a potential date. When you’re single going out with someone, or having a date becomes the most important part of the interaction. In fact, it’s almost impossible to think of doing anything else after meeting someone new except “going out with each other.” We don’t engage in phone calls or texts, or messaging of any kind unless its about where and when to meet. The meeting of course to determine if the person is worth our time. I order to have an enjoyable dating experience you can’t avoid investing in other people. If...
Online Dating Etiquette: How To Reject Your Matches
Saying no isn’t easy. In fact, it takes a lot of guts and courage to turn down a proposal (any proposal) in dating. You don’t want to come across as rude, or full of yourself. And you certainly don’t want to piss other people off and deal with the backlash of their anger towards your rejection. When it comes to online dating, and requests are coming in from different people, the task of saying no goes from bad to worse because you never know how the other person will takes things when you reject them. It is one of the...
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This Is What Makes Dating So Hard in San Francisco
I’ve had the luxury of speaking to single men and women all over the world about their love lives and dating habits. While the problems most singles face are universal, and not location specific, there is a common trend in San Francisco that baffles even the most well educated dating experts. Unfortunately, the challenge San Francisco faces is not solvable anytime soon, as it’s a symptom of a much larger cultural shift that the world will see soon enough. So why is dating in San Francisco so hard? The present is better than the future. There’s a lot to be...