A few years ago I made a video explaining a concept I called W.A.I.T, which stood for Why Am I Tripping? And it was a strategic way of analyzing why we get so upset when things don’t go our way in our relationships. In this video I explain a similar concept and tell you the most dangerous question you can ask yourself in dating and what critical question you should replace it with. When the person we’re into isn’t calling us, showing us attention, making us a priority or doing the things we want them to do, it can cause...
3 Things You Must Do To Keep Your Date Interested
Have you ever seen a couple and thought, “Why is she with him?” Or “What does he see in her?” To an outsider the relationship might seem mismatched but in reality it probably fell together like most relationships do: by making the person feel better or making the person become better. Every human being, no matter where they are in their life, has the innate desire for growth. We all want to be “better” people. You have the power to date any person you want by applying this principle. Anyone will date you if you help them feel better or...
Learn to Date Effectively to Find Love (for Indian-Americans and South Asian American women)
It is easy to feel lost and confused in the world of dating. It is even more likely that this is the case when you do not have a cultural history that includes dating to find someone for a long-term relationship, which is often the case for children of immigrants from South Asia. Often times this transition is even more difficult because parents hold tightly to their traditional culture while the children of immigrant parents spend their entire lives trying to adapt and fit into the society they have grown up in. Those who have adapted to a new way...
3 Reasons You Won’t Have A Marriage Like Your Parents
My parents are still married and have been for forty years. Without their commitment to each other and their family, I’m not sure I’d be where I am today. As much as I respect their story, I know that the rules of dating have changed. You’ll never have the same marriage as your parents and that is a good thing. To expect my dating experience would be anything like theirs has been one mistake I’ve made in my love life. In a new Ebook, Find The Love of Your Life, released by Ami Santoosh the author tackles modern dating for South...