A Letter To My Future Husband: Thank You For Being Obsessed With Me

A Letter To My Future Husband: Thank You For Being Obsessed With Me

If you’re like me, you’ve witnessed a countless number of friends, frenemies and Facebook acquaintances get engaged this year. While the people you assumed were never getting married or should’ve broken up four years ago were tweeting the dreadful ‘She said Yes’, you might have been thinking as I was, “What the f*ck”? Now I’ll be the first to admit, I don’t hold marriage in any high esteem or anything. I might have said once when I was 23 that I wanted to be married by 25 but that dream quickly died, as did my dreams of being cast on...

10 Things I Learned About Tinder You Should Know

10 Things I Learned About Tinder You Should Know

A few years ago, I was quoted as saying online dating isn’t for black people. It’s 2016 and although I like the app, unfortunately, Tinder did not prove me wrong. As a dating expert, and somewhat attractive woman, I’ve seen the evolution of the dating app for single straight people. Before trying it, I had been hearing about the app Tinder for quite sometime. Like the lackluster “Grindr for straight people”, app before it Blendr, I expected Tinder to go the way of the Dodo before I ever made my way to the apps store for download. To my surprise, as time...

7 Mistakes You Made In Your Last Relationship

7 Mistakes You Made In Your Last Relationship

Breakups are a bitch.As much as we might want to find the quick and right solution for dealing with them, there’s no easy way of getting over the loss of a relationship. Especially a relationship that held some hope or promise of marriage. Or at least to you. The only advice I can offer when you’re in the midst of a breakup is not to make the same mistakes that caused your demise again. You can avoid the pitfalls of failure by recognizing what went wrong and avoiding those behaviors at all costs. 1. You accepted less than what you...

How To Open Your Schedule And Make Time To Date

How To Open Your Schedule And Make Time To Date

Are You Too Busy for Love? “I’d like to date more but finding the time to meet people is just too hard.” Does this statement sound like something you’d say to yourself or maybe a friend? If so, you’re like the millions of people who turn to online dating for the convenience and ease of finding a partner. While the process might take up an hour or so of your time, you’ve made yourself available 24hrs a day, which can better your chances of finding love. If you tell yourself, or others, that you’re too busy to meet people, date...