Most single people fear coming across as desperate. Although its possible for someone to mistake your kindness or flirtation as romantic interest, it’s usually the people who feel desperate that fear coming across that way. But what if you want a relationship really, really, badly? It’s perfectly normal to want a relationship. What you have to ask yourself is why you want a relationship with: someone you don’t really know someone who you don’t really like someone who is less that you want Why, because we all want to feel validated and accepted. When someone commits to a relationship with...
3 Ways To Practice Vulnerability in Dating
The most attractive quality that anyone can have in dating is confidence. It doesn’t matter how many relationships books or blogs you read, the underlying theme is always tied closely to your confidence. If you don’t feel like a completely confident person, and trust me no one does, there are other ways to connect with the people that you’re dating. Remember that confidence means that you believe in yourself. It’s a reflection of how you feel about your abilities. The most under mentioned element of confidence that I want you to consider improving upon is vulnerability. [Updated] *I held a webinar...
Moving On From Your Past In Dating
Is what happened in your past keeping you from dating in the present? Letting go of the past and what changed us when we thought we knew who we were, is one of the most difficult processes I’ve ever experienced. There’s no surprise that many singles hold on to what they went through in their past relationships. Letting go is hard. Getting away from our pasts isn’t exactly simple when it comes to dating. Every date you go on, with each new person you meet, means rehashing feelings of what’s happened before in you’re dating life. You begin to share...
If You Want A Relationship, Let Men Pursue You
Dating and relationships are not the same. We often interchange the two, but getting into a relationship and being a good dater are not mutually exclusive. In fact, if you are a good dater, you’re less likely to want a relationship. If you’re ready for a committed relationship, and the work that lasting love entails, then post is for you. How many times have you met a great guy, had a decent interaction, or even a fun date with him and then waited and waited for him to make the next move? And he didn’t. Maybe the man you’re dating...