I know you want to enjoy dating -so what are you waiting for? For most single men and women, it isn’t exactly that they’re waiting for something as much as it is that they’re afraid of something. Maybe the real question is, “What are you afraid of?” There are goals that you want to achieve in your love life and possibly your life in general yet you’re putting them off. You’re really good at talking yourself out of doing what you know will make you happy. Why is that? I know and you know that you want to be in...
8 Negative Thoughts That Are Keeping You Single
Want to make dating easier, change the way you think about it… In my many years of writing about dating, I’ve come to realize that most adults want to find love above all else. There is a natural desire in every human being to express love so wanting a relationship is natural. Relationships are the safest place we can express love and receive it. Simply put, there is nothing wrong with not wanting to be single. From birth we were in the presence of a constant “type” of love. Despite how messed up you think your childhood was, you knew or...
5 Things You Shouldn’t Give A Sh*t About In Dating
I came across an article by Jillian Michaels in this months’ Glamour magazine. She’s a woman who I truly admire. She has incredible discipline, which I believe is the key to success. She offered advice on 5 things you shouldn’t give a sh*t about and I couldn’t agree more. What a great concept to share with you because I can tell that right now, you care a little too much about everything. Dating is NOT as much of a crapshoot as singles would like to believe. There are great dates everywhere. If you’re looking for the love of your life,...
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Being “Good Enough” And Other Dating Myths
Trying to prove that you’re good enough for by anyone else’s standards but your own is a BIG waste of your time. I haven’t lived your childhood or your experiences but we’ve all been through times when we tried to prove ourselves. Whatever the reasons we didn’t feel like we were “enough” at the time so we jumped through hoops and did the most when all we needed to do was believe in ourselves. At some point in your life, you were led to believe that you weren’t good enough and you’ve been desperately trying to change to worlds’ mind...