Dating can be complicated. When you add the baggage that we grow up with to the trials of past relationships, a healthy relationship is almost impossible to achieve. If you don’t have an ex to get over consider yourself lucky. For most of us, it’s likely we got involved in a relationship we thought was special and everlasting. We met someone who changed our perspective and affected our emotions. We trusted this person to be in a partnership with us and have our back. For whatever reason the relationship ended. Whether you dated two months or twelve years accepting that...
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Why It’s So Important That Other People Like Us
We all experience moments of feeling inferior. When no one is around and in the privacy of our own space we can feel powerful. And for most of the day we like ourselves but then there are moments when we’re afraid to share ourselves with others because we can’t handle the possible rejection. We’re insecure. I’ve developed a theory that most of our insecurities comes from the assumption that if others’ knew us, the real us, they wouldn’t like us. We’re afraid to be who we are because at some point in our lives that person was rejected. Maybe during...
The 2 Things You Need To Be Successful At Dating
I often talk about successful dating. That’s when what happens in your love life is what you intended to happen. You meet a potential date, you want to be asked out, and then you are. You have a great first date and you’re asked on a second date, bam… success. You meet someone you like and they like you back. Successful dating is ultimately things going your way. It’s the benefit of having choice and understanding that you are in control of yourself even when you can’t control the circumstances. Being successful at dating simply means having confidence that things...
Why Women Need Dating Advice More Than Men
I’m intelligent. Some might even say analytical. When I started this blog it was to give men advice on how to seal the deal with women like myself. I was in the fortunate position to be going on lots of dates with nice, high quality, gainfully employed, intellectual men who were sweet but bored the shit out of me. I tried to calculate how many and stopped once I got close to 200. And yes, that’s a lot. I was a sought after young single, and I loved dating once I became good at it. I wanted to find a...