You’re wonderful. I know we’ve never met so my saying that might not have much weight but you’re wonderful, aren’t you? Many singles are eager to believe they make great partners, have what others find desirable and bring more to the table than the potential dates they meet. The real question is would you date you? Can you afford you? Are you attracted to you? Do you find time with yourself enjoyable? Are you honest? If you cheated on your last partner would you date you knowing that you are cheater? I started this post saying how wonderful you were...
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Stop Trying To Win The Dating Game
Just because you are a prize doesn’t make dating a game. Vocabulary limits our understanding sometimes. There may be points in time where I refer to dating as a game. I have been known to encourage singles to create their own “rules”. But really what I mean is don’t let society tell you what you have to do to find and maintain healthy love. Dating isn’t a traditional game. Being in a relationship isn’t a standard prize, especially if it’s with someone who doesn’t make you better. The only reason I want you to take a moment and stop looking at...
Why Its Okay To Act Like You Like Someone, You Actually Like
Singles are great at lying to themselves. Maybe its just hiding our feelings but once we begin to feel interest in someone it becomes our first priority to act like we couldn’t care less. The logic is simple; you don’t want to get hurt. It’s better to say the grapes are sour than to want them and never get a taste. It’s even harder to accept when someone seems interested in us. We are even more afraid to like the people that like us, but why? I want to challenge you to admit to yourself two things: That you like...
3 Simple Steps To Change Your Looks For The Better
When I worked in the fitness industry one of the biggest challenges for overweight clients was their perception of having to try to lose weight.When we start the process of changing ourselves, we have to first come to grips that there is something about us that we don’t like. This idea is embarrassing. As adults we’re supposed to feel okay with ourselves. When you begin to make changes, especially to your appearance, there is a stigma that you have low self-esteem or you don’t like who you are as a person. Just because you want to improve yourself doesn’t mean...