I think it was in a Deepak Chopra book where I read the statement, ‘have no point to prove’. I’ve been living that mantra ever since. Whether it’s in conversation, in the way that I dress, or how I choose my behavior I repeat to myself, ‘have no point to prove’. I don’t get defensive. I don’t have to be right. I have no point to prove to myself or anyone else. This doesn’t mean that I’m perfect but I’m content. I don’t need consent or validation from people around me. And the truth is, people want to be right...
AttractionHow - To
How To Make Your Attention Invaluable
One key to successful dating is to make your attention seem rare and unique. By definition when something is rare or in limited supply it’s seen as incredibly valuable. You can create the same feeling with your attention and you should. We all want attention. Since we were babies and crying for milk, attention meant we were being taken care of. Neglected, we could get hurt or feel unsafe. Under a careful eye, with our caretaker giving us their full attention, better yet engaging us we felt loved. Why should it be any different now when most adults are simply...
Commitment
Are They Relationship Ready?
When you’re single and you don’t want to be, is when I think dating is the easiest. At the start of the year, I decided to journey with my readers on the quest to find meaningful and fulfilling love. I had to face the facts that dating successfully for most people meant finding commitment. It actually meant the end of dating and the start of a relationship. If that’s what it means for you, I understand. I’m not going to try to convince you to be a bigger flirt or plan a date for every day of the week. I’m...
Your Biggest Problem In Dating Solved.. Finally
There are two kinds of single people. Those who have a problem they want to solve and those who have a problem they want to talk about. When you’re serious about finding love and a happy relationship you can’t look at only the problems, you have to talk about the solutions too. Just because someone is talking about a situation that’s making them miserable doesn’t mean they are interested in making a change. It can simply mean they want to complain, and they want you to listen. If I had a dollar for every single that told me, “they actually...