The easiest way to get what you want is to be absolutely clear about what that is. A lot of single adults have moments of desperation. We all go through the stages of loneliness and unfortunately this process clouds the image of what we’re looking for when it comes to love. The truth is, you can date anybody. No really, you can. You have the power to attract any human being in the world that you will ever meet. You already use this power you just don’t realize it. Despite that we can use energy to attract any person our...
How To Give A Man The Only Thing He Wants From A Woman
Every time I hear the adage everyone deserves to be treated with respect, I have a physical reaction; it’s me rolling my eyes. While I believe respect should be given freely and automatically, it should only be given to people you actually like. I read a comment on the post, ‘How to Satisfy (and Keep!) a Man’ where the reader stated a man needed to earn her respect. This sentiment I’ve heard from many women before but newsflash, a man shouldn’t have to earn your respect; you should give it. Rejection isn’t necessarily disrespectful. When a man approaches me that...
Daddy Issues: How To Deal When You’re Dating A Father
This past weekend I attended an event in New York, called “Know Good Dads” produced by the fine people of Together Apart. As the talk of single parents, daddy issues and baby mama drama proceeded I started to think about my own dating life. I don’t have any kids (thank God) but I have dated two men with children and without relationships with their fathers. As the dialogue of the event continued it made me wonder if having a child is in any correlation to not having a father around? When the event concluded a woman approached me and asked...
How To Become More Popular And Addictive Than Starbucks
Starbucks says they are going to start putting religious quotes on cups. The very first one will say, ‘Jesus! This cup is expensive!’ Conan O’Brien Sometimes I think I just want to quit writing. Not because I don’t love what I do but because the information is so basic that within three posts I’ve already said what anyone would ever need to know to be a better dater. Several other writers not just me, matchmakers, PUA teachers and more, are regurgitating the same information. The shit isn’t new, so it can sometimes be frustrating trying to find new ways to...