I recently met a man whose number I didn’t get. Although I was drinking, I remember thinking he was cute, I remember giving him my number and I remember he asked me what my plans were for the next day. I felt like I was on my game but something stopped me from really going in and sealing the deal. I thought about this for a few days and I realized; I’m getting desperate. He was forty years old and I think he said something that made me think he was poor otherwise I’m sure I would’ve been all over...
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Have More Sex This Season, How To Find Your Winter Boo
Every winter I declare I want a boyfriend. I thought I wanted to be in a relationship over the summer but I tried and failed. This novel idea came to me again a few weeks ago then I remembered I made the same exact declaration last year at this time and I wondered if maybe it’s a seasonal thing. If you live in a four season city, such as I do, then you know that it gets too cold sometimes to go out hunting for someone to sleep with. It’s a chore in itself, in any season but in...
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Three Dating Truths That All Single Men And Women Should Know
There are rules to dating. Clearly they’re not posted anywhere convenient but when people don’t follow proper etiquette or protocol it doesn’t go unnoticed. Call them social mores or requisites but as unpredictable as dating can be single men and women still have certain expectations. We may not have a manual but once you’re of a particular age there are a few concepts that all adults mutually understand. When singles get frustrated by the dating game it’s because the most cardinal rules have been forgotten. I do believe dating has rules and most of my success is due to following...
Appropriate Phone Etiquette For Being Blown Off
A friend of mine calls my phonebook the pet cemetery. When I think I am absolutely done with a man, I delete his number and I move on. Months, sometimes years will pass and this man starts calling me again. I have a repeated history of not being able to get men out of my life. Le sigh. I think we all know the universal signs of being blown off and I execute all of them very proficiently. When single men and women can’t get the signs through their heads they send the message they’re desperate. The biggest mistake single...