Being single might feel like an inescapable problem. Where do you meet the right person, when will you meet them, and most importantly, how do you get them to like you? The variables that are involved in dating are so overwhelming at times, it makes dating feel like a painful process. If you’re single you might be asking yourself; why can’t I meet someone? Maybe you have met someone that sparked interest but you couldn’t get them to commit to you. It can feel so out of your hands, but being in a relationship is a straightforward process than when...
Is Self-Partnered the New Single?
What does it mean to be self-partnered? This isn’t just a cool phrase, or trendy term sweeping a community of female millennials. The term, as spoken by actress Emma Watson in a recent interview is more valid than you think. A Call For a New Term Language plays a huge part in the way we understand concepts. The term single used largely to describe anyone who is unmarried insufficiently describes the current dating landscape. We are all born single. Meaning we are all born without a legal commitment to another person. To understand that we are naturally single is to...
This Is Why He Didn’t Choose You
There is nothing more frustrating in dating than wondering, “Why”. When a relationship ends, whether it was a week-long, or years in the making, most women wonder what went wrong. You meet a man who seems like a great fit into your life, and at first he acts interested, then over time he pulls away. Even though he’s giving every signal that you are special to him, and there is a chance of building a future, somehow things fall apart and you find yourself wondering what could you have done differently. Are you waiting to be chosen by the men...
Is Your Type Keeping You Single?
Imagine that your taste in partners was like a game of battle ship. Your preferences already preset like your pieces on the board. They are static. As you enter into the vast ocean of potential matches, different candidates offer up different coordinates. Scheduled a dinner date – B6, bought you a drink – C16, held your hand on the walk to your car – A9, asked to see you again. You sunk my battleship! Without realizing it, you’ve developed preset attraction triggers that no matter the person, once they know the coordinates, will sink your battle ship. These attraction triggers...