IN THIS VIDEO I EXPLAIN WHY THIS WAY OF THINKING IS SO DAMAGING TO YOUR LOVE LIFE.
In dating, this is one of the most damaging philosophies that you can adopt. It’s true that when it comes to success what you believe dictates what you achieve and receive. If you don’t believe that there are more than enough people out there for you to date you will hold on too long to the wrong people and build relationships around a scarcity mindset.
The scarcity mindset revolves around the idea that there simply isn’t enough to go around.
Just because you haven’t been successful in the past doesn’t mean you can’t be successful in the future. Too often we let our negative dating experiences interfere with our belief systems.
Based on these past failures and negative experiences many single people accept two damaging attitudes.
- The person they want just doesn’t exist.
- The person they want will never want them.
They are so committed to these limiting beliefs that they often miss opportunities to meet the right people. If you find yourself thinking this way about your love life, that there are limited options for you, then you’re dating with a scarcity. One that acknowledges there are limits to what you can have in love.
For starters, it isn’t true. There is a lid for every pot. There is someone looking for a partner just like you who you are completely compatible with. In order to adopt an abundant way to dating you must adopt the following beliefs.
- I welcome the opportunity to meet new people.
- I constantly attract the right people into my life.
- My life is full of wonderful people who I love.
- I am open and ready to meeting the right person.
Repeat these concepts several times a day. Refuse to accept anything else as true. This is the best way to start living in abundance and believing that the right person is on their way into your life.
If you are open to the possibility that the right people exist you will have better chance of meeting them and you’ll also recognize them when you do. Don’t limit your dating pool based on your scarcity mindset. If it doesn’t work in your favor, then let it go. What doesn’t serve doesn’t deserve you. Believe in abundance in dating and you will enjoy a life full of eligible people.
Watch this video and comment, I hope this was helpful.