Waiting For A Text Back? Try This Instead

Attention. This is what we are fighting for. We want it from others and it’s frustrating when we don’t get it. It’s like a drug that we need a fix of every few hours, if not more. When we don’t get a text back, a call back or any indicators of interest we start to get anxious because what we really want is to be noticed. We want the attention of the person that we’re interested in. They have our attention because they are on our minds. We wonder what they’re doing, if they’re really busy or with someone else....

5 Ways To Keep Your Date Interested In You

You’re at a bar, you see a good-looking person. They seem single so you make your way over to say hello. You know how to open the conversation but how do you keep them interested in talking to you as long as you want to? Let’s say you’re on a first date. The initial questions are out of the way and you’re starting to run out of things to say. What do you do? What do you talk about? Keeping the conversation interesting and engaging isn’t difficult. It involves the single most important element of seduction: intention. There has to...

5 Things You Need To Know About Men Before You Date One

It should come as no surprise that men and women don’t understand each other. Think about it, we as humans barely understand ourselves. We procrastinate, self-sabotage and sweat the small stuff all the while thinking, “Why did I do that?” We question our value, our worth and our self-esteem fluctuates constantly. We can hardly explain why we are the way we are, without passing blame to our parents, so it should come as no surprise that we suck at understanding the behavior of others. No behavior is more confusing than that of the person we are trying to date. In...

How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone

How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone

Oh the dreaded friend zone. In dating when someone puts you in the friend zone what they’re essentially saying is: I like your personality but I am not physically attracted to you. Although there are variations to this sentiment, what separates a friendship from a romantic relationship is sexual attraction and desire. Desire is what makes any relationship possible. Without desire there is no motivation behind the relationship to keep it alive. The degree of this desire is what creates deep bonds and attachments that lead to life long friendships and even romantic relationships. The way to get out of the...