Attraction Principle #56 When you treat him casually as though he’s a friend he’ll come your way. Because he wants things to be romantic, but he also wants to be the pursuer. Have you ever heard the saying, ‘Nice girls finish last’? Well, neither had I until I read the book, ‘Why Men Love Bitches’. Up until then, I had believed that I was considerate, giving, and accommodating but in the words of Sherry Argov, I was too nice. The concept of being “too nice” in dating is one that has faced a lot of controversy over the years. It’s all...
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How To Keep Your Date Interested
Do you know who you are? In one of my favorite books, Emotional Resilience, self-esteem is classified as the difference between the person you think you are to the person you think you should be. Sometimes the difference is so confusing that instead of understanding who we are, we hold tight to an image of who we’re not and lament in the fact that we ARE NOT who we want to be. You’re not thin enough, rich enough, independent, successful, married, a wife, a mother, a doctor, and the list goes on. Some people are over labeled. The person you...
How To Qualify Your Date Before You Date Them
Everyone you meet or find attractive isn’t always a potential date. There are lots of eligible singles in the world and it would be great if we date all of them but we can’t. Many people we think are amazing catches and ‘just right’ for us don’t have what we’re looking for at all. Unfortunately, too many singles wait until they’re actually on the date to find this out. You don’t have to date everyone to know who isn’t compatible with you. Just because you aren’t a match with someone doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong, with either of you. There...
Why Your Last Date Hasn’t Called?
Have you ever gone on a date that seemed like a wicked fun time? You had great conversation and spent hours enjoying each others company, and even made plans for a next date but then never heard from them again? You might have thought the date went really well. So how come they didn’t follow up on date number next? This happens to everyone at some point in their single life and there isn’t always one singular mistake made that you can put your finger on but there are some mistakes I notice single men and women make all too...