4 Ways To Avoid Wasting Your Time

4 Ways To Avoid Wasting Your Time

No one likes to have their time wasted. Your time is valuable and it should never be abused by others who want your company but little else. In dating it can seem like a ‘you versus them’ atmosphere. It’s surprisingly difficult to find potential dates that are on the same page as you are, and who want what you want. It can be incredibly confusing when you meet someone who you have chemistry with and spend time with but they send you mixed signals about whether they’re really interested. How many times have you felt like you were dating someone...

3 Reasons Your Last Date Failed

3 Reasons Your Last Date Failed

Very few people are good daters. When I was in my 20s and averaging about 3 dates a week, I spent most of the time choosing bars, restaurants, or a movie.  Even though I was going out with different men, I found myself engaging in the same activities. Most people who date, either frequently or once a year, experience something very similar. We hate going on dates because they all seem the same. Before we’re even asked on a date or considering making plans with potential partners we’ve already envisioned sitting across from each other at a cute, swanky- slash-hip,...

4 Important Factors For Attracting The Right People

4 Important Factors For Attracting The Right People

Is there a sure way to get what you want in dating? I’ve read numerous books on the power of attraction and metaphysics that say yes, there is. Yet so many people still accept lack in their lives. So what is holding you back? If the answers are there and the secret is out, why aren’t more people employing these techniques to get what they want? The easy response: fear. One combatant to fear is strategy. Even if you don’t know if you can do it, it’s better to plan out what to do. So up until now, what has...

How To Replace What You Have With What you Want

How To Replace What You Have With What you Want

I have no doubt in my mind that if more singles knew what they wanted from their love life they would get it. Being clear about what you want, your dating goals and your ideal for love in the future is wonderful but it’s just the start. It’s not enough to just state what you want: I want a boyfriend/girlfriend, I want a meaningful relationship, I want to get married and have children someday. You must first accept that what you want is a real goal, and very attainable. You must also accept that sometimes we don’t get what we...