Have you ever wondered why you’re still single despite how sincerely you would like a loving relationship? Your attitude plays a bigger role in your life than most people realize. When you have a certain feeling towards something it tends to be (to put it simply) good, bad or indifferent. I want you to ask yourself, “How do I feel about dating?” This can be complicated. On one hand dating for many means a path to a relationship, then marriage. There is no specific way to feel about it, other than it’s a necessary evil. Obviously, to get the commitment...
How To Create Successful Encounters
After years of giving dating advice I constantly meet people who haven’t learned the importance of adding value. Whether they feel their presence is a gift in itself, most of the time when people fail in dating it’s because they are not adding enough value to their partners’ life. This couldn’t be more obvious than in the first few minutes of conversation with a stranger. While you might not be deeply invested in the lives of everyone you meet the ability to be of interest to them isn’t a trait I find most people can turn on or off. The...
Why You Fall For The Wrong People
I spent last night skimming through the chapters of ‘50 Shades of Grey’ a new fiction trilogy that’s getting lots of buzz and great reviews. The main character Christian Grey has an almost unnatural sex appeal that the books female lead can’t explain or resist. Although I’m sure his multi-million dollar net-worth has something to do with it. In the book, now a movie, this young woman finds herself doing things she’s never done before or imagined herself doing, all the while engulfed and aroused by Mr. Grey’s magnetism. In the author’s world the female character is “hypnotized” but in the real...
The Only Dating Advice You Should Read Today
Being single is your choice, even though it might not have been your intention. It’s hard to talk about being single without the philosophical rhetoric of ‘single people are single because they choose to be’. Well, yes. Life is all about choices and we are where we are because of the choices we’ve made. The reality of it, whether you call it denial or circumstance; many people don’t feel like being single is their choice. Being single is the subsequent result of many of your choices, but not a deliberate one. It’s like being broke. Surely your spending habits led...