You don’t have to be good looking to find a relationship. In fact, it can very frustrating to see others who don’t seem “as good” as us, in the loving relationship that we’ve always wanted. Hell, even Charles Manson got engaged just a few short years ago. So what does he have that you don’t? The confidence to know that there is no competition. It might seem that other people are in competition with you, for the love and attention of your perfect mate, but they’re not. The inferiority that we feel, and the competition that we feel in dating, is...
The Easiest Way To Impress Any Woman
I ‘m constantly saying that I hate nice guys, which isn’t necessarily true. In my life I’ve met several sweet, kind, caring, intelligent, interesting men who had a strong sense of self and a healthy attitude towards women. I’m not unique. Many women are meeting these same men and it’s become a little boring. So while it might seem that women are anti-nice guys I must congratulate men for providing so many of them to choose from. If you are a good catch and you haven’t been getting the results that you want in your dating life, I want to...
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What To Do When The Man Stops Trying
My very good friend has been dealing with a man who will readily admit to everyone that he wants to be with her but can’t stop acting the damn fool. I remember a time in dating when it was a shock to find out a man was an asshole. You were surprised. Nowadays it seems many men have decided, for the sake of not wanting to play games, to be assholes right from the jump. This is the true story of what happens when men stop being polite and start being real. The old joke of “you don’t date people...
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‘I Love You But I’m Not In Love With You’ & Other Bullsh*t Excuses In Dating
Has anyone ever told you, “It’s not you it’s me?” Or what about, “I like you but just as a friend.” And the ultimate, “I love you but I’m not in love with you.” If you’ve heard these paramount rejection lines before you might be unwilling to accept that they’re all bullsh*t, or maybe you already know. The (dating) truth is, dumping someone is really hard. No one wants to be the bad guy. In fact most of us spend our time trying to be likeable. I envy anyone who has the nerve to have those tough conversations and more...