What Single Successful Smart Men Want From A Woman And It’s Not Sex

Don’t try to be different.  Just be good.  To be good is different enough.  ~Arthur Freed Recently a friend of mine tagged me in Facebook in a note, one of my least favorite things. Usually I ignore notes as they’re often mindless rants about something I don’t give a shit about but this one caught my eye. Mainly due to the title: Why is it so difficult to find a woman with great qualities? I thought about this whole-heartedly because I wanted to give a great answer not just to my friend, who concurs his friends’ grapple with the same dilemma...

Are You Qualified To Date The Person That You’re Looking For?

Are You Qualified To Date The Person That You’re Looking For?

Acceptance is not love. You love a person because he or she has lovable traits, but you accept everybody just because they’re alive and human. Albert Ellis Maybe it’s just me but I will always think there are men who just aren’t good enough for me. In fact I’m sure many singles have thought the same of the opposite sex, which is why they are still single. It’s really crazy how judgmental we can be but after a certain age you expect your hard work to pay off. So you’re trying to tell me I spent $500 bucks at Sephora...

5 Bad Habits That Chase Men Away

5 Bad Habits That Chase Men Away

“Strangers are friends you have yet to meet” Has this ever happened to you… you meet a guy that you like, and you have a great conversation. You’re flirting laughing and seemingly having a great time. You’re sure he’s going to ask for your number and you can’t wait until your first date. The perfect scenario is playing out in your mind but what happens next is a combination of faith, luck and extreme discipline. As exciting as it is, I know all too well how easily women can blow it with men. That’s right I said blow it. There...

How To Practice Safe Text

How To Practice Safe Text

Always do sober what you said you’d do drunk.  That will teach you to keep your mouth shut.  ~Ernest Hemingway I have never had sext in my life. I’ve thought about it but then shuttered at the thought of pictures of my body parts in the hands of others. I of course, have shared pictures of people’s penises with all of my male gay friends so I know first hands that sexy pictures in the wrong hands can be very embarrassing. It’s not that I think it’s a bad idea. It’s just very bold. That’s a level of trust I...