One of my proudest moments is I didn’t sell my soul for the sake of popularity. George W. Bush One of the amazing things about living in America in 2011 is the growth of the “me” culture. If you’re single and have ever watched a reality show, you should’ve by now realized that people are insanely selfish and self-centered. I hear complaints from women that men aren’t marriage minded. Too many men want to play the field and dating is so much more difficult because singles are thinking of themselves and they don’t want to settle down. Men just want...
ConfidencePersonal Development
Why Being Awesome Gets You More Dates Than Being Regular Ass
You must have control of the authorship of your own destiny. The pen that writes your life story must be held in your own hand. ~Irene C. Kassorla If you let yourself get caught up in what society wants you to believe about dating, you will never be happy being single. The numbers game and the statistics are frightening but your everyday life experience should be your final barometer for success or failure. Do people like you? Do people find you attractive? Are you attracting the right people? These are not questions that the latest poll or blog post can...
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How To Be More Interesting Instantly
Be interesting, be enthusiastic… and don’t talk too much. Norman Vincent Peale As a dating expert I’d say the most important element of dating is being likeable. When you are likeable others want to A. get to know you and B. date you. Where many singles fail in their approach or attempts to secure dates is in their personality. Singles that have trouble getting dates in general have one problem; they are not interesting, to other people. If you believe that people should be interested in you and talk to you just because you are a person, a human being...
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How To Sell Yourself When You’re Single
“Sales are contingent upon the attitude of the salesman, not the attitude of the prospect.”- William Clement Stone Dating is selling. There is no doubt about that. You’re selling trust, desire, stability, adventure, change, love and everything in between. When you’re positioning yourself on the market, you have to know what makes you special and “worthy”. If you can’t express it clearly by your actions and appearance then you have to sell it. When I started to have great success in dating, going on many dates with wonderful people, it was all because I took control. I understand that controlling...