Women constantly complain about why the men that they’re dating aren’t willing to put in the right amount of effort. He never calls only texts, never wants to leave the house, never wants to go on a real date or is simply unromantic and aloof. What women don’t realize is the man is putting in effort, as much as he sees necessary for what he wants. I always say if he ain’t tryin’ he ain’t lyin. If a man isn’t putting in work he probably isn’t that into you. Women have to put their foot down and set boundaries. The...
You Might Want A Man But Your Wardrobe Begs To Differ
I don’t understand how a woman can leave the house without fixing herself up a little – if only out of politeness. And then, you never know, maybe that’s the day she has a date with destiny. And it’s best to be as pretty as possible for destiny. — CoCo Chanel If you looked in your closet right now, how many items could you actually say, you loved? Its wonderful to have great pieces in our wardrobe, it makes us feel good about ourselves when we look good. Knowing this why don’t more singles put their best effort into...
‘No Strings Attached’ – Why Sex With Benefits Should Have Guidelines
Can men and women ever just be friends ‘with benefits’? In the movie starring Natalie Portman and Ashton Kutcher ‘No Strings Attached’ this is the exact question they plan to answer. For the sake of women’s brains not exploding, I’m pretty sure we find out that the answer is No, that the man inevitably falls madly in love with you and you live happily ever after on his finance, consultant, lawyer, pretentious job salary but I haven’t seen the movie so I could be wrong. I’m quite the fan of ‘benefits’. I’m sure we all have our own hang-ups, beliefs and...
Time To Break Bad Dating Habits, Stop Falling For The Same “Type”
How many times, if ever, have you said, “They’re not my type.” What was it about this person that didn’t jibe with all the others you’d dated and failed with? So often singles think they know when a person is right for them but if that were true, you probably wouldn’t be single. Just saying. When single men and women describe their “type” it’s typically the kind of person that they have an instant physical attraction to or connection with. All single people have two kinds of “types”; the kind that doesn’t want you and the kind that does you...