I was once a female Pick-Up Artist. Instead of sex romps and makeout sessions, my pulls eventuated to free drinks dinners and free drinks nights out. I say this because the rule of a pick-up is to have, be and stay in control, at all times. You see a target, you have a goal, you execute a plan then voila a date is set. For the very best P.U.As the date could be immediate, back to their apartment. But for most men P.U.A methods are to get over the fear of talking to women. It’s a way for the average man,...
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When Good On Paper Isn’t Good Enough To Find A Date
If you’re like me, you are sick of people asking, “Why are you single?” True it’s an annoying question in general but more so when you don’t have an answer. In you’re mind, you’ve done everything it takes to find love. The Dating Truth is: on the scale of compatibility most men and women are just one rock shy of where they need to be. They are perfect on paper but lacking in person. It’s the curse of being good on paper and to tell you the truth it sucks. You have so much going for you based on Eharmony’s...
Why Being Good For Marriage Makes You More Attractive
Although no one is good at everything dating isn’t a subject we think of people being bad at. Maybe you aren’t a good singer, a good dancer or good at math but dating, it’s like breathing, and it’s assumed we all know how to do it. Years ago when the goal of dating was simply a matter of getting someone to want to marry you, sure it was easy to be good. You knew you had succeeded on your wedding day. Nowadays the convincing of others, into that marriage thing (and with who, you?) is a completely new challenge. Believe...
Why You Should Never Let Anyone Waste Your Time
No matter how much you know about dating, relationships, or yourself, it’s not easy to avoid the wrong relationship. Maybe the relationship isn’t “wrong”, maybe it just ends, which can make you feel like you’ve wasted your time. I think any experience that helps you grow as a person is worthwhile. Unfortunately, it’s impossible to know if a relationship will last, and for how hong. Every experience can teach you something about yourself. And hopefully every experience guides you closer to answering two important life questions. How do you find the one? How do you know when you find them?...