My milkshake brings all the boys to the yard, and they’re like it’s better than yours. Damn right it’s better than yours I can teach you but I’d have to charge. – Kelis
Do you ever wonder how some women have a natural ability to meet men?
It seems like no matter where they go, everyone has that one girl friend, that as soon as you turn around she’s talking to a new guy.
When it comes to attracting men there is a simple formula; you must have the right energy and the right attitude.
You could consider your ‘milkshake’, your inner confidence. When you project a secure, positive and welcoming vibe, men will naturally be attracted to you.
Women who are confident and have a good energy are the types of women who are meeting men in grocery stores, gyms, gas stations basically where ever they go.
In this highly competitive market isn’t it a better idea to have the men come to you?
If you aren’t having the kind of success you’ve been dreaming about, the problem is within you. The good news is so is the solution. You are in full control of making a change.
If you aren’t bringing all the boys to your yard, here is what could be wrong with your shake.
It’s the wrong flavor
I understand that human beings naturally want what they can’t have but it’s hard to attract men who aren’t interested in you. I’ve warned singles against chasing after a “type” because sometimes what we want just isn’t into us. That is ok. You cannot force attraction. If you’ve been waiting for a guy who isn’t right for you newsflash he isn’t coming. You might ask, “Well how do I know he’s wrong for me until I get to know him?” The answer is; if he isn’t giving you the opportunity to get to know him he’s not for you and you’re not for him. The end.
It’s made with sour milk
You have a bad attitude. Stank, foul, funky however you want to put it you are sending out a message of negativity and it tells men to stay away. Good, kind men will only approach women who seem safe to talk to. Not those who look like they have an ATTITUDE.
It taste like every other shake
If men aren’t flocking to you it’s because they can’t find you. You don’t stand out enough from other women. It shouldn’t be difficult for any human being to be unique, just be you! The advantage we all have in life is that there is only one of us, (for some of you, thank God). If you aren’t sending out vibes that you’re unique, special, wonderfully different from every other woman out there then you aren’t expressing your true self.
When you’re single the best chance you have at meeting quality dates is largely based on that gut feeling that tells a man, “Talk to her, say something.”
The ability to encourage those thoughts is what truly makes the difference and good energy is that element which will always bring all the boys to any yard but mostly yours.
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