Many people fear the very success they say they want, especially when it comes to dating. If it’s been awhile since your last great date or you’ve recently ended a disappointing relationship the thought of dating again might seem overwhelming. The truth is, you probably don’t want to date but you need to express love. So how can you make one happen without the other?
If you’re frustrated with your prospects in dating and feel disdain for the process the easiest solution is to make the search for love apart of your lifestyle. Don’t limit your options because of your limiting dating beliefs.
When you make finding love a lifestyle, it happens faster than you ever imagine.
SURROUND YOURSELF WITH WHO YOU LIKE
Most singles can tell you down to the blood type the person they want to date. The problem is, they’ve never met anyone like this person. If they have, it was someone they never had or no longer have a relationship with.
If you want to meet the right person then surround yourself with the type of people you want to date and if you don’t know where to find them then learn. The idea that your potential partner is one singular person with no friends, hobbies or behavioral patterns is absurd. There are lots of people out there who have most of the qualities that you want in a partner, find where they are and surround yourself with these people.
LIVE A LIFE OTHERS WILL ENJOY
Netflix and snacks does not an enriched lifestyle make. Many people aren’t living their ideal life yet they are anxious to invite a complete stranger to join them. Just because you don’t have a significant other doesn’t mean you shouldn’t enjoy date nights and the activities you’ll eventually experience with a partner.
Treat yourself to the restaurants you like or go the movies, even by yourself if you don’t have a friend to accompany you.
Don’t put your life on hold because you’re single. Develop interesting hobbies and get active. You have a better chance of attracting a partner when you’ve created a life worth sharing with someone else.
DON’T BE LAZY ABOUT LOOKING
Single men and women believe that finding the right partner comes with an on and off switch. They act as if they can be committed to the search one moment then hide from the world the next and success isn’t achieved that way.
Choosing the right person is a critical decision and it deserves your energy and effort.
One of the most important decisions that you will ever make in life is who you marry, so why treat looking for love as an extra-curricular activity. Create a strategy for finding love and invest the time it takes to find it.Don’t be lazy about your search for love just because you think love happens by luck.
You wouldn’t take this approach with any other goal in your life. Time and effort will always result in success and when it comes to love you should want to be successful. Don’t be afraid to do the work necessary to bring love into your life. Even though it might not be easy, it will be worth it.