Can Other People Really Make Us Happy?

Can Other People Really Make Us Happy?

It appears that people can make us feel a range of emotions; happy, sad, angry, frustrated, euphoric, disappointed, depressed and the list goes on. The truth is this is an illusion. We live in a society that has convinced us that happiness lies outside of us, within our environment and through the things we accumulate. Here is a perfect example of how we have learned this way of understanding life’s happiness. A mother sees her young child crying. The mother enthusiastically offers the child a cookie. The child then seeing his/her mother smiling (happy) makes the association with the cookie...

Date Ideas: What Else Should You Do On A First Date?

Date Ideas: What Else Should You Do On A First Date?

It’s 2019, and time we retire going to the movies as a first date. Since I started dating at sixteen years old I’ve been going on dates to the movies. Back then it was fun to finally be alone with my crush and nervously cuddle up while watching a scary movie. But now we’re older and trying to build more connections when dating – the goal is to get to know someone. How am I supposed to get to know you when Thanos is killing half the universe in the background? So, here is a short list of three non-conventional...

Top 7 Reasons You Should Start Online Dating

Top 7 Reasons You Should Start Online Dating

If you haven’t tried dating singles online before, there may be any number of reasons for this. Perhaps you’ve paid attention to those rumors about online date sites being a last resort for singles who have failed to meet a partner anywhere else. The fact of the matter is, these sites and apps are the polar opposite of that nonsensical description. In fact, they are the only resort for millions of eager participants. If you’re considering getting into online dating but just haven’t plucked up the courage, here are the top seven reasons why you should do so. You are...

Red Flags and Blind Spots in Dating a Narcissist

Red Flags and Blind Spots in Dating a Narcissist

Dating online can be a gamble. The obvious reality is that you will meet all sorts of individuals on any free dating website. You can generally spot positive, or negative, personalities straight away then either persevere, or move on accordingly. But what about someone who, superficially, appears too good to be true? Those charismatic individuals that draw us in, and take our breath away tend to be narcissists. One of the fundamental traits any narcissist possesses, will be an unerring ability to charm. You may well be drawn to their charisma, but what are the red flags and blind spots...