We all know what they say about assumptions yet in dating single men and women make them all of the time. In few instances are assumptions ever accurate. They create false perceptions and they negatively influence our interactions. One of the biggest misconceptions and the most damaging come from single men when they assume that talking to a woman equates to hitting on a woman and it doesn’t. I know it’s difficult to approach a woman but once you do there is one more step in the interaction and its intent. It may seem crazy but I never assume that...
How To Avoid The Fear Of Having To Settle
One of my biggest fears in dating used to be settling. Every man and woman at some point in their singlehood has settled. It probably sucked which is why so many of us fear that it will happen to us again. For those who are fuzzy on the definition, settling is basically dating someone who you intrinsically feel is less than you originally desired. It’s not necessarily about looks, status or personal circumstance at all. What I consider the true test of whether you’ve settled is simply feeling like you could do better. If you are looking for the right...
Dating 101
Am I Sending The Right Vibes In Dating?
What Does It Take To Be Desired In Dating? There are three keys to creating chemistry: making someone laugh, making someone think and of course making them a little horny. This is the ideal recipe for what I call successful dating. If you can manage to inspire all three feelings at once, I guarantee you will have willing participants in your love life. Creating positive feelings in another starts with sending the right vibes. These are the warm feelings you get when you meet someone you like. Many singles mistakenly accept that you have to be gorgeous, wealthy and a rhode scholar...
Game
Build Up Your Game With Positive Internal Dialogue
The question I’m always asked is: How can a man feel comfortable talking to women? I’m sure women are sometimes just as equally nervous talking to men but since women don’t solicit my opinion on that topic I’m leaving them out of this post. There is inner game and there is outer game. I possess inner game because I can walk into a room, decide what man I want to talk to me and within the time I’m there that man will approach. Even if I have to conveniently walk past him once or twice, I feel absolutely confident that...