Globally, marriage is on the decline.
There are more single adults living alone today, than any other time in history. For single men in Western countries, the marriage market hasn’t changed too much. There are still more women categorically for every man, and in major cities like New York, more women than ever. In fact, now is the best time to be single for a man, who has the choice of almost any woman he wants. While the marriage market is shrinking for some women, who’s standards include six figure salary, height of six feet or higher, no children, and never married, for men, the market is doing very well.
If you’re single, then you might be wondering what’s the catch? The truth is, we are a culture that has forgotten how to marry. Dating is the easy part. We are good at meeting people, swiping, sliding into DMs, and have first dates at various coffee shops but we are not good at coupling. Both men and women struggle with the reality that dating is no longer the precursor to marriage.
It’s easy to meet women, as you might experience but harder than ever to get these women to settle down and choose you. One important factor is that neither men or women need marriage to survive. Women are more self-sufficient today than ever before, and more and more, millennials are opting out of sexual activity.
So engaging with the opposite sex isn’t a challenge due to the change in the dating landscape alone, we are becoming less wired for connection. The solution to finding love, in a world where we are less connected than ever, could be in a good coach.
Dating is no longer the precursor to marriage. It has taken on a life of its own, and causing frustration for the millions of singles that have to endure it. If you care about your success in love, these top coaches can help make life a little easier.
Justin Stenstrom
Justin Stenstrom is a nationally-acclaimed life coach, author, entrepreneur, and speaker. He is the Editor-in-Chief of EliteManMagazine.com, the founder of Elite Life Nutrition, and the host of the Elite Man Podcast where he interviews some of the best self-help experts in the world, including guests like Robert Greene, Grant Cardone, Dr. John Gray, Bas Rutten, Dr. Dale Bredesen, Kevin Harrington and many others.
Once anxious, insecure, depressed, and unhappy, Justin’s overcome many of life’s greatest obstacles and loves nothing more than helping others do the same! Check out Justin’s latest work and find his best content by watching him on YouTube.
Zan Perrion
Zan Perrion is recognized as one of the most original and insightful voices on relationships and seduction in the world today.
Frequently featured as a guest and presenter in many parts of the world, he has never varied from his concept of a more “natural” approach to women, dating and life. Due to his wonderful ability to inform and inspire audiences toward excellence in all aspects of life, Zan’s seminars and events sell out immediately and have garnered impressive reviews in every city they have been held – Montreal, Toronto, Los Angeles, Las Vegas, New York, London, Panama, Tokyo, Warsaw, Amsterdam, Bucharest and Cape Town, to name just a few.
One of the founding members of today’s “burgeoning community of international pickup artists”,[1] he has advocated a more natural and enlightened[dubious – discuss] form of interaction between men and women. Perrion provides seminars and workshops through his company, Alabaster Communications Inc., and publishes literature and multimedia about relationships, seduction, and dating. He is author of the best-seller, “The Alabaster Girl”.
Sarah Jones
Sarah Jones is the daughter of an engineer and the sister of an engineer, and she has dated many engineers as well. She has seen firsthand the dating challenges faced by reserved and intelligent men, and she has made it her life’s mission to help them come into their own. In 2014, she founded a private coaching business called Introverted Alpha to support highly capable and thoughtful men in the dating scene. Her one-on-one coaching sessions and training modules give these analytical singles a framework for understanding attraction, love, and relationships.
Sarah recently incorporated personality assessments in her work to dive deeper into what makes her clients tick and teach them how to become the best possible version of themselves.
Thomas Edwards Jr.
For the past nine years, Thomas Edwards has served as a social strategist to professionals around the world. A recognized authority on social skills development and lifestyle strategy, he has been consistently celebrated for his effectiveness in the world of dating, lifestyle, and professional strategy. Edwards has directly impacted the lives of thousands from all over the world with his personal coaching, public speaking engagements, and live events.
Thomas’ knowledge and unique approach to social strategy have been featured in media outlets including the Wall Street Journal, Cosmopolitan, the New York Times, Maxim, CNN, Ebony Magazine, Boston Globe, the Associated Press, Steve Harvey Show, and MTV. He’s also a regular contributor to Huffington Post Live, Tablelist, Bustle, Men’s Fitness, and Entrepreneur.com.
Robert Manni
Robert is the author of THE GUYS’ GUY’S GUIDE TO LOVE, a novel praised as the “Men’s successor to Sex and the City”. Robert’s website, RobertManni.com, features his syndicated blog (On Life, Love and the Pursuit of Happiness), media appearances, videos and news. He is a featured Blog Talk Radio host of Guy’s Guy Radio™, a weekly call-in podcast (available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Stitcher, and TuneIn) with over 200 shows featuring interviews with relationship experts, entertainers, writers, and sports personalities.
Robert has been featured on ABC Radio’s Men’s Life with Slacker.com. He is also a regular contributor to Huffington Post, Thought Catalog, Cupid’s Pulse, GalTime, a Featured Expert on YourTango, and was named one of the Top Dating Bloggers of 2015 by DatingAdvice.com. Robert has appeared on broadcast television (NBC’s Morning Blend, WPIX11 Morning News) and is frequently interviewed on satellite and terrestrial radio shows.
Robert developed the Guy’s Guy™ platform to help men and women better understand each other and to bridge the communications gap between the sexes. He continually creates a fresh, robust palette of timely Guy’s Guy content focused on life, love and the pursuit of happiness. Whether it’s navigating the challenges of modern dating, relationships, friendship, career or wellness, Robert explores ways to help men and women be at their best so that everyone wins.
David Deida
Known internationally for his unique workshops on spiritual growth and sacred intimacy, Deida has designed and developed a remarkably effective program of transformative practices that addresses spiritual awakening in mind, body, and heart. He is a founding associate of Integral Institute and has taught and conducted research at the University of California Medical School in San Diego; University of California, Santa Cruz; San Jose State University; Lexington Institute, Boston; and Ecole Polytechnique in Paris, France.
Deida is known worldwide as the author of hundreds of essays, audiotapes, videotapes, articles, and books that bring to light an integral approach to spirituality. His books include the best-selling underground classic, The Way of the Superior Man; several practical texts on authentic sexual spirituality, including Finding God Through Sex and Blue Truth; and the autobiographical novel about highly unconventional spiritual training, Wild Nights.
Charlie Houpert
Founder of the self-help and advice brand Charisma on Command who creates video content on a YouTube channel of the same name. His channel is subscribed to by more than 3.2 million individuals.
Before launching Charisma on Command, Charlie worked as a business analyst for Censeo Consulting Group after obtaining his MS in commerce – marketing and management from the University of Virginia. Before that, he was a student of Spanish and Latin American Studies at American University.
He the author of books called Captivate: Conversational Secrets To Be Instantly Likeable, Make Unforgettable Impressions, And Never Run Out Of Things To Say, The Anti Pick Up Line: Real Habits To Naturally Attract Stunning Women and Charisma On Command: Inspire, Impress, and Energize Everyone You Meet.
Nick Notas
Nick Notas is a dating and confidence coach for men. He’s helped thousands of men conquer their fears, build genuine self-esteem, and develop charismatic social skills for the last 10 years. Over 300,000 men have read his advice every month.He describes himself as direct but fair and will challenge your way of thinking.
Nick’s clients are smart men with high-earning careers. They often graduate from prestigious universities such as Harvard, MIT, and Columbia. They are top engineers at Google/Microsoft, executives, entrepreneurs, surgeons, or own large real estate portfolios. They’re “successful” in the world’s eyes. They all have one thing in common, though — they aren’t completely happy with their lives
Nick Notas shows them how to attract the women they want, create healthy relationships built on respect, develop meaningful friendships, repair broken family connections, and find the courage to love themselves.
Em Lovz
Emyli Lovz is America’s dating coach for men. Her passion lies in helping people create happy, healthy, and loving relationships that last. From 2011-2012, as part of her senior thesis research at UC Berkeley, Emyli went on 101 dates with 52 different men. She recorded evidence in a systematic manner of what created success and failure on each date.
Evidence from the experiment became the basis for her teachings. Today, Emyli offers private one-on-one coaching through The EmLovz Signature Program, a 12-week intensive that helps clients get more dates with the women they’re most attracted to.
Connell Barrett
At age 35, after having bad luck with women all his life, Connell Barrett set out to find a way to make dating easier. After completing many courses on strategies to meet women, he found it was his mindset that was keeping him from sharing his authentic self with them.
So Connell transformed his own life and then began coaching other men to do the same through his website, DatingTransformation.com. Although he has limited availability for one-on-one coaching, Connell offers free resources on his website to help any man who is open to changing his perspective.