How To Let Your Guard Down

How To Let Your Guard Down

You can never love fully with a wall up. We think that being guarded can shield our feelings from hurt or our hearts from heartbreak and in some ways it can feel like we are protected but in actuality we are deprived.  Like a thriving house plant you’re sheltered from rain, and wind and frost but you never truly feel the sun. Do you want a love that is superficial? A love that can’t go any deeper than your guard? If you’ve been afraid to open up to new people, experiences, relationships and even love consider this: once you heal,...

One Thing Men Want From Women

One Thing Men Want From Women

For the last six years I’ve encountered hundreds of men who desperately want women to know the answer to this question. What do men want? Women have driven themselves crazy; bending over backwards and jumping leaps and bounds to become what they think men want but the reality is, what men truly want is far less complicated. Men are not frivolous creatures with no heart or depth but the fundamental thing that they want most, more than your perfect body and your flawless makeup. More than your culinary skills and your intellect above all, men want to have fun and the...

Do You Scare Men Away Without Knowing It?

When it comes to making a man completely smitten the secret isn’t in what you say but what you don’t say. As complicated as dating might seem there’s one compelling factor that will keep a man calling you and coming back for more. A man will stay interested in you as long as he hasn’t figured you out. The moment a man has figured a woman out, or at least thinks he has, is the moment he heads for the hills. A first date or, even a first meeting, women make the mistake of sharing too much too soon. Sometimes...