Why Feeling Bad About Your Looks Negatively Affects Your Dating Life

Why Feeling Bad About Your Looks Negatively Affects Your Dating Life

Dating has nothing to do with looks. I hate to break it to you because all this time you’ve been blaming your poor dating fortune on the crappy cards you’ve been dealt in the looks department but they don’t matter.Don’t give me the old, well it’s easy for an attractive person to say that looks don’t matter. But it’s the truth. When it comes to dating looks don’t matter as much as you think they do. What matters is perception. How your looks are perceived is more important than how great looking you are. What matters more than anything is...

How To Overcome Your Fear Of Asking Someone On A Date

How To Overcome Your Fear Of Asking Someone On A Date

  Do you hate dating? Do you at least tell yourself that you hate it? C’mon, tell me the truth. I don’t believe that anyone actually hates dating. By definition, connecting with new people is supposed to be a pleasurable experience. Unfortunately many singles don’t know how to connect so they end up being defensive, scared and insecure. They feel the pressure of living up to someone else’s expectation while deciding if their date lives up to theirs. It’s a tough gig. But why do we put ourselves through such torture? Because we want every person we have an ounce...

How To Date Differently To Get Better Results

What do you want from your love life that you aren’t getting? Recently I’ve been reading ‘Life Matters’ by Dr. Phil and one point that he continually enforces is; you wouldn’t do it unless there was some sort of payoff. You aren’t dating as much as you want to, you aren’t meeting new people, and you aren’t as aggressive in dating as you should be to see results, so I ask you why not? Is the comfort of doing things as you’ve always done them too appealing? We all need to get out of our ruts sometimes. We engage in...

10 Proven Tactics That Will Get You A Date Guaranteed

Do you want to get a date? No seriously, no bullshit. Do you want more dates or don’t you? If you said yes, great I can help you. It can happen. I’m not sure who said it but have you ever heard the saying, ‘When the plan doesn’t work you have to work the plan’? That’s what I want you to do. Forget the yes, let’s focus on how you plan on getting to a yes in the first place. How many times have you wanted to ask someone on a date but chickened out because of nerves? Fear of...