I’ve been single for a long time. When I hear men and women complain about dating and how hard it is to find someone I can totally relate. What I learned about complaining, after reading Will Bowen’s “A complaint-free world,” is that it is an absolute waste of time. The funny thing is I didn’t need to read the book to know that and writing it in this post doesn’t make it suddenly true. It is true. What complaining does do is bring awareness and attention to certain situations that we just can’t stand and that get on our got...
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What Every Man Should Know When Approaching Women
When you’re single, you can easily waste time talking to people who aren’t interested in dating you. I sympathize with anyone who has the nerve to approach attractive strangers and risk getting brutally shot down. I know its especially hard on men because I’ve witnessed the worst of rejections. I’ve seen women berate men for mispronouncing words or tell a man he’s too short. Ouch. These attitudes might seem excessive but their possible existence conjures real fear in men. I can only imagine that most men’s inner voice tell them, “beware of talking to women, they will hurt your ego.”...
Is Sex On The First Date Ever A Good Idea?
I don’t have a lot of sex. Never has it ever been a dilemma in my life whether or not to have sex on the first date. In my mind, if you have sex with a stranger the very first time that you go out, it’s likely to be your last date. Of course there are exceptions to the rule and we all have that one girl’s cousins, sister’s, neighbors, uncles, and nanny’s best friend who had sex on the first date and ended up happily married. Exceptions to the rule exist but be real, they don’t apply to most...
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5 Reasons Why You Need To Find A Wingman
I once stumbled onto the good fortune of finding myself in the midst of the defensive line of a professional football team. (with no groupies in sight) As I wanted to mix and mingle, my girlfriend decided she would rather go back to our seats, way at the other side of the room. I was shocked! I was appalled! I was sipping on my free martini courtesy of the middle linebacker and this dumb b*tch was mean mugging from a distant location. I knew then that if I wanted to attract the right men I needed to have the right...