Why Being Counterintuitive Overcomes Shyness

If you’re a single adult living in the 21st century, you can not afford to be shy. Like a warm wool blanket single men and women drape their anti-social behavior in the cloak of shyness and all other singles are asked to adjust. We are all a little self-conscious when it comes to meeting new people but if you’re single you can ill afford to miss any opportunities for a date. That means pushing past any limitations that might have hindered your dating life. Counterintuitive behavior, if shyness has plagued you, might be the solution for getting more dates. If...

3 Techniques To Avoid Having Another Boring Conversation

The biggest challenge single men and women face when meeting new people is maintaining their ability to carry on an interesting conversation. I find that even the most fascinating people can sometimes lose their way to nerves when trying to impress someone new. It isn’t easy to sound intelligent, witty and flirtatious when you’re worried about what this potential date thinks about you. Especially once they become more receptive to what you have to say, all of a sudden you can’t think of anything poignant or funny. The moment that lull hits the conversation you’re suddenly at risk of losing...

How To Make A Good Impression In Dating: Have A Life

If there is one person on this earth that deserves to be loved, honored and cherished it’s you. The greatest gift that any of us can ever give to ourselves, or to anyone else, is our love. The trouble is, you can’t give what you don’t have. Just as the popular Billy Preston song goes, “Nothing from nothing leaves nothing. And you gotta have something, if you wanna be with me.” The moment we approach a potential date, we’re sized up. They are judging not only what we have but what we have to offer. In this post, I want...

How To Make A Good Impression In Dating: Don’t Seem Broke

Despite what many people believe money is not an important factor in dating. In fact, the lack of money is a driver to go out and date more. You don’t need money to find love. If you don’t have a lot of money, then that’s a good thing. But the challenge is separate who you are with what you have. Whether you’re looking to be asked on a date or you’re the one doing the asking, the impression you send makes a world of difference. There are certain impressions that you just don’t want to give off. You don’t want...